Funerals and Memorial Services
When someone dies it may well be the worst day of your life — at this time we are often confused, in shock and unsure of how best to honour our loved one.
I will guide you through the steps in designing a ceremony that befits your loved one and allows you to be fully present at the funeral. I will support you and your guests with compassion and understanding to ensure the service runs smoothly, creating a safe space for the grief you share.
Funerals are changing from a prescribed format to services that often include family and friends in various ways – I am very open to helping you do what is right for you!
As a funeral celebrant I am obligated to:
Stand strong on your behalf to best honour your loved one
Guide and support you as you navigate this challenging time
Understand your needs and sensitivities with empathy
Work closely with the Funeral Director you have chosen
Offer you options for ceremony design
Assist you with the eulogy and any other readings, poems and speeches.
Assist in involving others in rituals and rites you may choose.
Respect any cultural requirements that you would like incorporated into the service.
Provide complete confidentiality and privacy.
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Funerals and Memorial Services FAQs
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The funeral director that you choose is responsible for the legal and health aspects of taking care of a person after they have died. A celebrant will liaise with the funeral director and will be the officiant for the service.
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A funeral or memorial service is usually between 30 minutes to one hour. Often this depends on the location of the service and will be arranged by the funeral director.
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Yes, a celebrant can conduct the service at the graveside, in a chapel or other venue that is approved by the funeral director.
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I think primarily that the wishes of the deceased person are met as well as those of the family. Apart from the health and legal aspects of caring for the person, a family can design whatever service they feel is best. Some elements to consider are creating a service that allows mourners to acknowledge the death, to be able to express their grief in a supportive and safe environment, to celebrate the life of the person and to share a testimony of their life and start their healing process.
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This may be done by a member of the family, friends of the deceased or by the celebrant. As a celebrant, I can help you to create the eulogy. I am also available to deliver the eulogy if required.
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A celebrant is not authorised to conduct a religious service. However, some elements that are consistent with the family’s beliefs may be included.